{"id":180013,"date":"2026-04-13T15:27:18","date_gmt":"2026-04-13T14:27:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/glass-cage.com\/dianas_blog\/?p=180013"},"modified":"2026-04-13T15:27:18","modified_gmt":"2026-04-13T14:27:18","slug":"that-certain-age","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/glass-cage.com\/dianas_blog\/2026\/04\/13\/that-certain-age\/","title":{"rendered":"That Certain Age."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"604\" height=\"403\" data-attachment-id=\"180034\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/glass-cage.com\/dianas_blog\/2026\/04\/13\/that-certain-age\/mslindalee-3\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/glass-cage.com\/dianas_blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/MsLindaLee-1.jpg?fit=2048%2C1365&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"2048,1365\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"MsLindaLee\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/glass-cage.com\/dianas_blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/MsLindaLee-1.jpg?fit=604%2C403&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/glass-cage.com\/dianas_blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/MsLindaLee-1-1024x683.jpg?resize=604%2C403&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-180034\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/glass-cage.com\/dianas_blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/MsLindaLee-1.jpg?resize=1024%2C683&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/glass-cage.com\/dianas_blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/MsLindaLee-1.jpg?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/glass-cage.com\/dianas_blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/MsLindaLee-1.jpg?resize=768%2C512&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/glass-cage.com\/dianas_blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/MsLindaLee-1.jpg?resize=1536%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 1536w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/glass-cage.com\/dianas_blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/MsLindaLee-1.jpg?w=2048&amp;ssl=1 2048w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/glass-cage.com\/dianas_blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/MsLindaLee-1.jpg?w=1208 1208w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/glass-cage.com\/dianas_blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/MsLindaLee-1.jpg?w=1812 1812w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 604px) 100vw, 604px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h6 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Life plays us in a sense, we push too hard one way and it resists us and forces us off course far to often. <br><br><br>&#8220;There is a tide in the affairs of men,<br>Which taken at the flood, leads on to fortune;<br>Omitted, all the voyage of their life<br>Is bound in shallows and in miseries.<br>On such a full sea are we now afloat,<br>And we must take the current when it serves,<br>Or lose our ventures. <br><br>W Shakespeare.<br><\/h6>\n\n\n\n<p>Might seem a little odd, but I think maybe for a while I will not try and be pro-active and seek stuff. I will just carry on writing and recording my own stuff, do <a href=\"https:\/\/invisiblefolk.com\/invisible-folk-club-band\" data-type=\"link\" data-id=\"https:\/\/invisiblefolk.com\/invisible-folk-club-band\">Invisible Folk Band projects <\/a>and take any gigs I get offered that its practical to do. But I am giving up the hunt. If the stars align for something new and magical again great, but if they don&#8217;t.. It feels as if I  am surrounded it seems by time wasters again. What a surprise. You try and you just don&#8217;t get a hand up.  Sometimes it has to be all or nothing. You have to bet the farm. There is no risk free life, ever.<br><br>That&#8217;s sort of a complete 180 degree turn from what I was trying to achieve but a couple of years back to be honest, but at this stage doing what I really want to is the best way to go now. <br><br>I am eccentric and quixotic in terms of how I approach things at times and my strong points are also weak spots as I am never really going to be bland. Some people want bland though. I like working with people to make a thing that&#8217;s more than the some of its parts if possible. Also I am not a perfectionist so I would rather be getting it 80% or 90% right than labouring for ever to get that 99.99% There is not much to be done I guess. I can have good days with very little arthritis type pain then a really bad day. Often with no rhyme or reason. Much like the depressive episodes which just pop up out of nowhere. On bad days the arthritis is quite debilitating. Other days I feel quite normal. Although I moan about it I do have gigs and music projects. Its just my social life that&#8217;s a little bit lacking.<br><br>I have certain innate abilities but that also makes me a bit lazy. Maybe there is a spot for me in some new &#8216;thing&#8217; but tis the fates which must decide, but it seems unlikely. <br><br>A few recent tunes from me&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n<ul class=\"is-grid columns-2 has-excerpts wp-block-rss has-background has-light-brown-background-color\"><li class='wp-block-rss__item'><div class='wp-block-rss__item-title'><a href='https:\/\/soundcloud.com\/dianastone\/existential-dread-swing-time' target=\"_blank\">Existential Dread  Swing Time<\/a><\/div><div class=\"wp-block-rss__item-excerpt\">Existential Dread Swing Time by Diana Stone<\/div><\/li><li class='wp-block-rss__item'><div class='wp-block-rss__item-title'><a href='https:\/\/soundcloud.com\/dianastone\/on-a-day-such-as-this-only' target=\"_blank\">On A Day Such As This Only Memories<\/a><\/div><div class=\"wp-block-rss__item-excerpt\">On A Day Such As This Only Memories by Diana Stone<\/div><\/li><li class='wp-block-rss__item'><div class='wp-block-rss__item-title'><a href='https:\/\/soundcloud.com\/dianastone\/marching-in-lines' target=\"_blank\">Marching In Lines<\/a><\/div><div class=\"wp-block-rss__item-excerpt\">A protest song sort of.<\/div><\/li><li class='wp-block-rss__item'><div class='wp-block-rss__item-title'><a href='https:\/\/soundcloud.com\/dianastone\/disappointments-and' target=\"_blank\">Disappointments and Distractions<\/a><\/div><div class=\"wp-block-rss__item-excerpt\">Slightly world vibes alt pop-rock song with prog overtones<\/div><\/li><li class='wp-block-rss__item'><div class='wp-block-rss__item-title'><a href='https:\/\/soundcloud.com\/dianastone\/interference-patterns' target=\"_blank\">Interference Patterns<\/a><\/div><div class=\"wp-block-rss__item-excerpt\">Violin chil-out vibe with Synths<\/div><\/li><li class='wp-block-rss__item'><div class='wp-block-rss__item-title'><a href='https:\/\/soundcloud.com\/dianastone\/false-dawns-illusion' target=\"_blank\">False Dawns Illusion<\/a><\/div><div class=\"wp-block-rss__item-excerpt\">Gentle solo piano piece<\/div><\/li><li class='wp-block-rss__item'><div class='wp-block-rss__item-title'><a href='https:\/\/soundcloud.com\/dianastone\/everything-scares-me-so' target=\"_blank\">Everything Scares Me So<\/a><\/div><div class=\"wp-block-rss__item-excerpt\">A song about feeling scared like so many of us are right now.<\/div><\/li><li class='wp-block-rss__item'><div class='wp-block-rss__item-title'><a href='https:\/\/soundcloud.com\/dianastone\/not-home-yet' target=\"_blank\">Not Home Yet<\/a><\/div><div class=\"wp-block-rss__item-excerpt\">Nostalgic wistful theme<\/div><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n<p>I am becalmed but not calm&#8230; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For me personally my issue is that I lack people not projects I guess. Everybody in the Boomers (my covers band) are busy with family\/Church and volunteering stuff a lot of the time. All very worthy, but totally different to my situation and life really. I am slightly introvert but enjoy company, but I have always found making friends difficult. I am not sure its really fixable at my age. Non-transactional friends I suppose I mean is what I need so company for no particular reason, rather than say music buddies. Of course they might be both I suppose?<br><br>A poem:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><br>Was That You?<br><br>Funny I never realised but its been so long.<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\">How are you then, alive at least.<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\">I thought you were really someone else.<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Maybe it shows how slow I am now<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\">And the world is not the same and it seems to spin much faster<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\">the days turn into disaster.<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\">I should have called out and said hello or ahoy there or maybe even There she blows, but I didn&#8217;t.<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Just silence and a lingering stare. Not sure I caught your eye,<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\">or perhaps I did and you were politely ignoring me for mental health and safety&#8217;s sake? So now I am convinced it was you but I didn&#8217;t ask so I cant be 100% sure, maybe I should have asked to see that scar<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Was that you, maybe?<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Because It was definitely me.<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<p><br><br><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Life plays us in a sense, we push too hard one way and it resists us and forces us off course far to often. &#8220;There is a tide in the affairs of men,Which taken at the flood, leads on to fortune;Omitted, all the voyage of their lifeIs bound in shallows and in miseries.On such a &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/glass-cage.com\/dianas_blog\/2026\/04\/13\/that-certain-age\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">That Certain Age.<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":180038,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-180013","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-musings"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/glass-cage.com\/dianas_blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/deltacrown.jpg?fit=1440%2C1080&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p6NRDR-KPr","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":22190,"url":"https:\/\/glass-cage.com\/dianas_blog\/2015\/10\/15\/recently-i-was-in-this-place-doing-stuff\/","url_meta":{"origin":180013,"position":0},"title":"Recently I was in this place doing stuff","author":"diana Stone","date":"October 15, 2015","format":"gallery","excerpt":"The JamSpace Winchester \u00a0 \u00a0","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Musings&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Musings","link":"https:\/\/glass-cage.com\/dianas_blog\/category\/musings\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"Jam Space Winchester Big Desk","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/farm6.staticflickr.com\/5832\/22002440118_a800a1af58_z.jpg?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1","width":350,"height":200,"srcset":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/farm6.staticflickr.com\/5832\/22002440118_a800a1af58_z.jpg?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1 1x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/farm6.staticflickr.com\/5832\/22002440118_a800a1af58_z.jpg?resize=525%2C300&ssl=1 1.5x"},"classes":[]},{"id":85058,"url":"https:\/\/glass-cage.com\/dianas_blog\/2017\/07\/11\/some-stuff-to-listen-to-whilst-everything-turns-to-shit\/","url_meta":{"origin":180013,"position":1},"title":"Some stuff to listen to whilst everything turns to shit","author":"diana Stone","date":"July 11, 2017","format":"audio","excerpt":"","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Musings&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Musings","link":"https:\/\/glass-cage.com\/dianas_blog\/category\/musings\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":978,"url":"https:\/\/glass-cage.com\/dianas_blog\/2011\/01\/02\/2011-and-other-stuff\/","url_meta":{"origin":180013,"position":2},"title":"2011 and other stuff","author":"diana Stone","date":"January 2, 2011","format":false,"excerpt":"Its not been the best start to New Year, but hopefully things will get back in to equilibrium soon. \u00c2\u00a0 So Happy New Year all. 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